MARRIAGE

Life is hard to be run alone. Like or dislike, as social creature in this earth we need other people to rely on or minimally to share what we expect/want/complaint about..
Always there friend to put our hand in their shoulder… But how long they can share their time for us. Actually they have their own life problem too..

So, What is the solution???

When we have enough ages, have a job or income at the first time we would like to enjoy our salary to fulfil our need like gadget, secondary or tertiary need and so on. Then after that because all of physical need have been fulfilled, we will think that there is something lost. Our deepest hearth need to take anchor in the harbor called “Holy relation –>marriage”.

Then With Whom We can anchor our life??
That is the question that just be able to be answered by ourselves. Every people has their own criteria to their life couple. Some people like the one who resemble with their Mom. Some other want to have inner/natural beauty that don’t need to much cosmetic (not highly cost for cosmetic so that the budget can be invested for other investation product).. Ha ha ha….. Some people want to have a wife with the same religion the same ages/older/younger.Some other want to have a couple who have the same vision like the same vision to take higher education and a good career, Some other want to have a wife like an artist who is beautiful like angel and so on….

Just one thing that I would like to suggest to you don’t delay to take decision where you want to anchor your life if you have finance capability, enough age and have the one who can make your hearth comfort and safe when you are stay beside her or stay in a distance, the Ones who love you and your family like her own family. The Ones who receive your goodness and your weakness and want to strengthen/empower it to run life together in happy and sad.

For the ones who just plan to hold marriage… Please prepare your finance for marriage party/celebration. It’s only once in life just make it unforgettable. Off course You have to spend enough money to do it. So just allocate certain portion of your salary to make it be come true suitable with your expectation in the day that have been stipulated together between your family and your couple family…And prepare for unpredictable adventures after that….Your effort for home sweet home and its struggle to get it, have a baby and grow them with a good education and welfare and so on. So that you can learn what lesson that Your Parent show You since You were born till be a real parent like them..