We live together with others.

And we really understand that communication is the devices to hold a good conversation.

But, In the eyes of Dale Carnegie :

To make other person like us need several tips.

NOw, I will share it for all of U Guys:

• Firstly, make Urself really interest to someone that U wanna talk with..
• Give him/ her / them Ur beatiful smiles.
• The most important one is U must remember his/her name and call them friendly coz here is the important and sympatic ways to make him respect and comfortable to talk with us.
• Be a good listener to the whole topic of Ur discussion. Try Ur partner of discussion to tell him/herself.
• Please, talk about the favourite things of other person.
• U must make Ur partner of discussion fell that he/she is important and U must do it fro the bottom of Ur hearth.

In my idea, the whole of Dale Carnegie’s idea is obviously correct. Actually, someone is really interested with him/herself.. Pls, remember it : ” When U look a n album of photograph containing several of person and U are the be one of them. Pls answer it honestly, Who is actually U seek at the first time : Ur photograph or Others ???

So Just make other person felt comfortable, and no longer of time they will love U as friend or maybe morethan that. WHO KNOWS…..

What is mind mapping? What’s the correlation between mind mapping and the brain optimality?

This is my preface today…

Mind Mapp is the overally alternative thinking of brain toward the linear thingking , it reach the whole of direction and catch various thingking from various angles. (Michael Michalko, Cracking Creativity).

Mind Mapp is a great organitational thingking devices that help us to put information to our brain and take that information outside of brain.

Mind Mapp is a creative, effective writing way and harfiahly it will mapp our thingking.

Mind mapping can help us to :

• to plan something
• comunicate attractively
• to be more creative
• save our time
• solve our problem
• focus our attention
• arrange and explain the way of oucr thingking
• memorize somethinug strongly
• learn quickly and efficiently
• see the detail cases

So base on that reasons it is our time to learn how to make mind mapping that i will explain in my next articles.

Our brain consist of 1.000.000.000.000 cells that is equal to 167 times of the total people in the world. So it will be useless if we don’t spend it wisdomly to improve our life quality.

Life is not simple as our imagination.

But when we are talking about imagination, it is related with our expectation and dream.

So how?? What should we do ??

That is my preface today.

Is imagination (included here is dream and expectation) needed ?? How is it important??

We must understant that to be unstopable in every site we want, of course it is not a simple tasks. WE must prepere 2 aspect :

1. Internal aspect

Internal aspect is related with ourself. The whole potency in lied on our body and soul. In my idea, the example of it is dream, expectation, emotion, spiritual quotient, Physical potency, Intelectual capabilities and so on.

So that of course, we must prepare the whole aspect that i have mention above. Firstly, we must have dream, ambition, emotion, and expectation. THen If we have them, it is still unsufficient, we must belief on them, make steps for achieving them, maintain our spirit and motivation. How the ways?? Of course we must imagine it everytime and always make kind of introspection regularly (dayly maybe) so that we can measure how good or bad our achievement? Or What is the weak aspect so that we can improve and at the end motivation and spirit to success ( achieving our dream ) is fresh and blossom or on fire time by time to fight with the whole barrier or hindrance.

if we can do that, it is unsufficint. We must prepare our physical capabilities. Latin item mention taht ” Solvitas paralum” : masalah dapat diselesaikan dengan berjalan”. SO if we want to solve the whole problem, we must have a good health and body. ” In the strong body belong to or exist the strong soul”. it is needed to support our unlimited dream and desirement to achieve our dream and expectation.

Then, Of course We must have a good spiritual proficiency. We must care about the whole obligation given by our God to make God care about our dream.

2. External aspect

we life is not alone. We are created by God as Social human. We need other people. So making relationship is really important. Real action ; visit friend, talking with neighbour, hold cooperation with other, join in club and so on. Enlarge Our networj is impertant.

Why do we wait to be old to be a rich man ???

Why do we wait have money just start bussiness??

Why must we start our bussiness now??

Why do we must be a rich man ??

That is several of preface for my article today :

To be rich is the rich of the whole of people. either they are young or old, rich or poor, clever or selfish, handsome or ugly, beatiful or not, man or woman. And the question now is: when will they brave to take action for the whole of their planning and dreams? Why must now?? When we are still young??? That because we are still single. we don’t have any obligation for our children and family needs. So whatever the risk that just be our way to seek our self identity to be more mature and success. If we compare with a married man or a married woman or a married man who has children ,of course the young time is the best time to start our bussiness and to be rich. YOU MUST BRAVE TO SAY ” I”LL DO IT MY WAY“. So just do everything that U want and plan NOW.

Starting Bussiness is not only talk about money. There are many people who have much money but they don’t brave to start their bussiness or be entreprenuer. And There are several people who don’t have money but have bussiness. How can?? That is caused they brave and confident to make their dream be reality. They make their bussiness plan and seek partners who have to do their bussiness together. Just by ensure ourself 4 being success we can ensure another people to be succeed and belief their money to hold the bussiness together.

Here is the tips :

life like a wheel that always rotate as

clock who always run from hour to hour.

We always run and run to fulfill our life

with many kind of activities and agenda till we fell so exhausted and tired morever frustated. BUt all of this feeling come and go without any permission at all. depend on our hearth feeling and mood. So just ask our brain to persuade our hearth to be positive so everything will be oke and happy. And by giving spirit to our hearth that everything we do is as representation of our existences in this world. so just let it as part to make us mature and wisdom or be better time by time. so whatever happen we must keep fighting to be the real winner who can knock down ourself (our weakness). and everthing will shine like the beauty of the sun rises in the morning that give wonderful inspiration the the whole living.

As a young person especially a collage student,

we are so busy to do many kind of activities till forget to our health. When we have leisure time, we tend to spend it for sleeping or wasting time such us playing game a so on. But Do we ever think about our heath?? Do we ever think that our health is really important to support our dreams, ambitions, expectations or maybe desirements ??? Or maybe we just care about our health when we are sick?? FOR me no health is became one of an important aspect that i must concern about… Why ??? Because we now that Health is expensive man….. When we are sick, how much money do U usually spend for doctor, medicine and so one….??? Wow It is not a simple cases in my eyes… So I prefer concern it now…? I don’t want to wait till i become old then at that time just understand that health is really important.. I my view that is too late.. We must prepare our old time now by keeping our health by avoiding smoking, drugging and another destructively bad habits. My effort now is seeking many kind information about health such as reading, collecting book about heath, join breathing sport.. So I’m sure through kind of them, I can maintain my health and be more fresh to see a bright future.

I have joined esq training today.

It teach me more and warm me to remember again about the basic value of life as mentioned in holy Al Qur’an.

Of Course, we life to seek happiness in world and akhirat. But we should not forget about our heart voice. We must be able to differ the right and the wrong then ensure our heart that everything we do is lictes by angel and must be responsible in akhirat… GOD, HOW MERCYFULL YOU ARE! Give power and shelter from a bad things, gone me power to control my desirement, give me patient in harf time, show me the path to go happiness beside You.

1. Katakan hal pertama yang muncul si kepala anda. Karena tidak ada jawaban benar atau salah jadi enjoy aja Guy…

2. Kalau bisa mainkan dengan orang lain. Boleh sih dibaca sensirs, tapi akan lebih SEERUU jika inaimkan ma teman-teman selain lebih mengasyikkan juga kita dapat menjadi lebih dekat ma mereka.

3. Jangan berusaha mengira-ira jawaban. Just easy going ja nothing to lose, jd g asyik aa gitu seakan g beda ma lagi ujian.

4. Jujurlah dengan diri sediri. kokologi mengajarkan sesuatu pada diri kita, jika mungkin dari sini kita tahu kekurangan kita yaaa kita bisa perbaiki dong jangan malah ditutupin..

5. Bersiaplah. Akan ada beberapa kejuatan dari permainan ini.

6. Jangan membaca lebih awal. membuka diri untuk menerima kejutan..

7. Lihatlah reksi orang ma diri sendiri. Dijamin seru dan ekspresif.

8. Tetaplah berpikiran terbuka. Keanekaragaman akan memberikan warna yang mengasyikkan…..

SELAMAT MENCOBA : )

One upon a times. There is Lily seed flowers among wild plant like grass and so on the slope of mountan.When the Lily flower grown, every wild grass and bird always annoy or disturb him.

They said : Ur existence is useless in our places like this.

Nobody will see YOu. How beatifull You are ,there will be no one know it. But Lily flower have really wonderfull spirit and belief that someday his existence will be admitted by the wild grass and bird. In her mind and heart, she says that to be beautifull is her obligation. I don’t care, will anyone see it ??Time by time, day by day, year by year

with wonderfull spirit the lily flower work hard to counter the natural challenge.

Until the waited time come, the lily flower show her real beauty and identity.

She look so so beautful and make the wild grass and bird to be silent.Everyone now, admit the existence of lily among them. By times going,

Lily flower grow from one to be hundred.And the villagers among the slope of mountain

begin to pay attention to Lily flower beauty. And every person admire the beauty of lily Flowers and call that places as “TEBING BUNGA LILY “.

From this one : WE MUST LEARN FROM LILY SPIRIT TO SEEK HER REAL IDENTITY AND PROVE IT TO OTHER PERSON